Gratefulness… When one has to use another to have a good time – A story about me, myself, and I 10 Oct 2021October 10, 2021 I was in my own worldMe, my mom, my friend, and her son When I ran towards you, being cautious of my unwell back, carrying the kid's ball, rushing to…
Introduction… “But he is gay….” A random statement from one, years of therapy for trauma for another 17 Aug 2021 About an hour ago I overheard my mother refer to a well known politician's name. It amazed me to observe some random memory from about two decades ago drawn into…
Analysis… “It’s the effect of the ring” – A way to identify with our ego – A lesson from The Lord of the Rings by J. R. R. Tolkien 10 Aug 2021 Last week I was quite busy watching the Harry Potter movie series on Netfllix. Believe it or not, I am one of the few who had never read or seen…
Friendship… Why do we cling to negative experiences? The reason for healing to take time… 6 Aug 2021August 6, 2021 So it's lockdown again for those of us living in Victoria, Australia. It's the sixth one. I was pretty upset when the announcement was made last night, as I am…
Community… Heal thyself – A book that helps queer heal themselves 5 May 2021May 5, 2021 Note: This blog post is my way of thanking Allan Downs, the author of The Velvet Rage, and my psychologist Beau Growcott who has been working with me and walking…
A Crazy Turn… It’s a question of them knowing if their lives are worth saving. 6 Mar 2021March 6, 2021 It was two weeks ago when I last met B (PhD). I was not only heavily intoxicated, but was peaking a toxic shame cycle. I couldn't remember the last time…
