Community… Heal thyself – A book that helps queer heal themselves 5 May 20215 May 2021 Note: This blog post is my way of thanking Allan Downs, the author of The Velvet Rage, and my psychologist Beau Growcott who has been working with me and walking…
Life… What if I never find true love? 28 Apr 202128 Apr 2021 This morning for my "reading of the day," I watched a couple of Youtube videos from The School of Life. One of them had the title "What if I never find…
Love… Body image vs Mind image – A glimpse of accepting self 12 Apr 202112 Apr 2021 This morning on my way to work, while listening to The Velvet Rage, written by Alan Downs, PhD, I came across the below passage: The non-acceptance of your body is…
Community… Where is that peacefully loving sweet point in loving my neighbour as I love myself? 6 Mar 20216 Mar 2021 "Forever wanting more"; Do I only see when I add more to what I already have? When I see others who have less than what I have, Do I feel…
A Crazy Turn… “So you think you can judge?” asked God 9 Feb 20219 Feb 2021 In my early life, I was judged heavily, and I judged in return. I picked sides, and I decided what was good, bad, and ugly. I mean, that was what…
Analysis… Who should make the move first – A dating dilemma 8 Jan 20218 Jan 2021 If you are in a stage in life where you may ask for first or next dates from a "random stranger" you've met, I am confident that you have faced…
Life… ඉවසීමෙන් සැනසීම ද, සැනසීමෙන් ඉවසීම ද? 5 Jan 20216 Jan 2021 https://youtu.be/7IdEY7lWXa4 අද දින මාගේ මව Youtube හරහා මාවරලේ භද්දිය හිමිගේ මිනිස්සු මැනීම යන මාතෘකාව මුල් කොටගෙන කියැවුනු බණකට සවන්දී සිටින බව ඇසින. පහුගිය දින වල: "අනේ මට නං ඔය බණ…
Community… Writing to heal, writing to communicate, writing to be successful. 4 Jan 20214 Jan 2021 Background of the author I was born and raised in Sri Lanka. My upbringing was mostly in the Sinhalese community, where the primary language spoken and written was Sinhala. I…
Community… Closing the door on 2020 1 Jan 2021 https://youtu.be/iVRg04MOj18 At the age of 40, I now remember at least 35 or so New Year's Dawns. Each New Year's Dawn we try to come up with resolutions, and consider…
Analysis… My journey in the poverty cycle and homeless cycle and lessons learnt to work towards a better world 24 Dec 2020 https://youtu.be/JtU8xquogN0 As some of you may already know, I migrated to Australia in 2010, just hours before my 30th birthday to start over new, with a bag full of hopes…
Analysis… Christmas and Being Poor 24 Dec 2020 https://youtu.be/YOseT7vDT9Y Jesus Christ.... I believe Jesus Christ was like a Buddha of the West. I believe he was a handsome man with an equally handsome heart, who advocated us to…
Gratefulness… A 30 day mental health routine – 5 Reasons to Love Myself – A blog that grows with time 24 Dec 2020 Introduction Based on some advise given by a fellow human being that I met through a Facebook group, to boost my self love, I have started doing a daily mental…
Community… To feel sorry for ourselves, only to hate ourselves again 23 Dec 202023 Dec 2020 This morning, I was refering to some of my conversations with my psycologist with my mother, who has been staying with me since February, 2020. When I referered to my…
Community… Flirting on the train 19 Dec 202019 Dec 2020 This is an attempt to write a very short story based on a true incident. I can't really recall all the details as it was sometime ago. This was on…
A Crazy Turn… Rich little me! A story about the blessed “Me” 18 Dec 202019 Dec 2020 Note: This blog is a continuation from The Poor Little me! A story about the Victim Me!. As the author, I highly recommend you to read it before reading this,…
A Crazy Turn… Poor little me! A story about the Victim “Me”… 18 Dec 202019 Dec 2020 Introduction Has anyone ever told you You need to learn to live on your own. Be independent, and learn to love yourself. Then only you can share your life with…
Community… Under Pressure!!! 27 Nov 2020 The world they say,doesn't revolve around youBut what if it did?Then what would you say? For every word you speakFor every step you takeFor every move you makeWhen the world…
A Crazy Turn… Me, myself, and I 26 Nov 2020 It is an emptiness, It is a voidIt is a missing piece, I cannot findIt is a thoughtless moment, with me, myself, and IBut my chest goes before me, crying…
Community… Let me introduce you to amazing grace 7 Nov 20203 Jan 2021 Introduction As some of my followers may know, since about a couple of weeks ago, I've joined and actively participate in a Facebook group called Pride Tribe. So, here I…
A Crazy Turn… You say you love me, But, should I really care? 6 Nov 20206 Nov 2020 You say you love meYou say I am worthyYou say I belongYou say I am yours But then,It's about the dress I may wearIt's about the lover I may careIt's…
Analysis… Josh … When we met 1 Nov 20201 Nov 2020 Introduction Last Saturday night... I didn't particularly look for a "date", but the "thought" about a potential companion dragged the "beast" for a little while. Sunday morning... I went for…
Analysis… A River of Dreams… Life! 31 Oct 2020 If I was a river, I'd have a dreamTo hug the ocean, and call it home The twists and turnsThe rocks and gapsThe rain and the sunWould they make me…
A Crazy Turn… A walk towards “my” community through Pride Tribe 29 Oct 202029 Oct 2020 Introduction I would be hesitant to claim anything as "My", as I know, that once this form ends, when I finally die, there is nothing I would take with "Me",…
Analysis… Some Facts About Sri Lanka – Those who judge, this is your window of opportunity to learn presented AS COVID-19 25 Oct 202026 Oct 2020 Note from the Author Dear Readers, I say these words, with utmost kindness. This is not me trying to run over someone who has fallen from a tree already. The…
