Friendship… the way you need to love yourself 8 Apr 2022April 8, 2022 So I look back in timeTurning pages through the notebook in my mindThere you were validating me as lovableThe good, bad, and the ugly. I remember it like it was…
Life… Now that you’re gone 15 Oct 2021October 15, 2021 Did you put on a smile?Did you try to be so kind?Did you hide your weary time?While you tried to fit our style Now that you're gone Do we love…
God… A heartfelt prayer 5 Sep 2021 May those who hurt be healedMay those who need be givenMay those who bless others be blessedMay all of us who are lost be lead May our prayers be heardMay…
Analysis… “It’s the effect of the ring” – A way to identify with our ego – A lesson from The Lord of the Rings by J. R. R. Tolkien 10 Aug 2021 Last week I was quite busy watching the Harry Potter movie series on Netfllix. Believe it or not, I am one of the few who had never read or seen…
Friendship… Why do we cling to negative experiences? The reason for healing to take time… 6 Aug 2021August 6, 2021 So it's lockdown again for those of us living in Victoria, Australia. It's the sixth one. I was pretty upset when the announcement was made last night, as I am…
A Crazy Turn… When I see you as “than me”… 18 Jul 2021 Through those little curious girly eyesA world so big and beautifulAn ocean of possibilitiesI saw before I started ... To look through your eyesand compare you with meOnly to define…
Community… Heal thyself – A book that helps queer heal themselves 5 May 2021May 5, 2021 Note: This blog post is my way of thanking Allan Downs, the author of The Velvet Rage, and my psychologist Beau Growcott who has been working with me and walking…
Life… What if I never find true love? 28 Apr 2021April 28, 2021 This morning for my "reading of the day," I watched a couple of Youtube videos from The School of Life. One of them had the title "What if I never find…
Analysis… How to stay still, when my time sing? 15 Mar 2021March 15, 2021 At my first ever cross roadMy stunned self has to chooseA left, a right, or maybe a right about How to stay still, when my time sing? Ask my friendsAsk…
Analysis… The Joker 13 Mar 2021March 13, 2021 Why did it hurt meWhen it made you laughFor the way that I walked, talked, and livedTo be the joker so that you could laugh? Why did I like the…
A Crazy Turn… It’s a question of them knowing if their lives are worth saving. 6 Mar 2021March 6, 2021 It was two weeks ago when I last met B (PhD). I was not only heavily intoxicated, but was peaking a toxic shame cycle. I couldn't remember the last time…
A Crazy Turn… “So you think you can judge?” asked God 9 Feb 2021February 9, 2021 In my early life, I was judged heavily, and I judged in return. I picked sides, and I decided what was good, bad, and ugly. I mean, that was what…
A Crazy Turn… Sorry – An apology for mistakes I’ve made in my words 8 Feb 2021 Words, merely a tool to communicate our opinion, emotion, experience, or some random garbage wrapped as our story. But, they can do a lot of damage. Whether we attack someone,…
Artists… Enough – Accepting the delta between 8 Feb 2021February 8, 2021 Each of us sings our song called "My Life." The lyrics, the key, the tune, the melody, only we know. But, we hear harmonies from time to time from the…
Human Centred Thinking… Not if you are the last one to “Get There”, where ever “There” is. 31 Jan 2021February 1, 2021 Somewhere over the last couple of weeks, I listened to a TedX talk on the topic "The Dark Side of Happiness". The speaker, Meik Wiking, a happiness researcher, explains to…
Life… Death! An escape? A completion? 31 Jan 2021January 31, 2021 A constant voidWill I ever be complete? A constant goalWill I be happy without one? A constant lifeWill I ever be free from voids and goals? Death! An escape?Will it…
Analysis… Who should make the move first – A dating dilemma 8 Jan 2021January 8, 2021 If you are in a stage in life where you may ask for first or next dates from a "random stranger" you've met, I am confident that you have faced…
Life… ඉවසීමෙන් සැනසීම ද, සැනසීමෙන් ඉවසීම ද? 5 Jan 2021January 6, 2021 https://youtu.be/7IdEY7lWXa4 අද දින මාගේ මව Youtube හරහා මාවරලේ භද්දිය හිමිගේ මිනිස්සු මැනීම යන මාතෘකාව මුල් කොටගෙන කියැවුනු බණකට සවන්දී සිටින බව ඇසින. පහුගිය දින වල: "අනේ මට නං ඔය බණ…
Introduction… Perfect Dream vs Imperfect reality 3 Jan 2021 Hello my blog readers. First of all, thank you so much for the following. Today, I wanted to share with you some of my singing attempts. This was done a…
Analysis… How we deal with sickness? 2 Jan 2021January 3, 2021 https://youtu.be/_av2ZGtoI7c Introduction I am unwell. I have the flu.I am unwell. I am depressed. These are sentences most of us may have used. Year 2020, although the world was shaken,…
Community… Closing the door on 2020 1 Jan 2021 https://youtu.be/iVRg04MOj18 At the age of 40, I now remember at least 35 or so New Year's Dawns. Each New Year's Dawn we try to come up with resolutions, and consider…
Analysis… My journey in the poverty cycle and homeless cycle and lessons learnt to work towards a better world 24 Dec 2020 https://youtu.be/JtU8xquogN0 As some of you may already know, I migrated to Australia in 2010, just hours before my 30th birthday to start over new, with a bag full of hopes…
Analysis… Christmas and Being Poor 24 Dec 2020 https://youtu.be/YOseT7vDT9Y Jesus Christ.... I believe Jesus Christ was like a Buddha of the West. I believe he was a handsome man with an equally handsome heart, who advocated us to…
Community… To feel sorry for ourselves, only to hate ourselves again 23 Dec 2020December 23, 2020 This morning, I was refering to some of my conversations with my psycologist with my mother, who has been staying with me since February, 2020. When I referered to my…
Analysis… Why its important to know from within before forming an opinion and picking a side – Video Blog 21 Dec 2020 Introduction Based on an incident this morning, it occured to me how vastly we can go wrong and can get lost, when we based our judgements and opinions purely on…
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